What is the charisma for you? Have you ever had to engage in such things you do and however you feel that your potential is beyond your performance?
Probably good you are professionals, serious, competent, and know a lot of things, but feel that you could do more, that you are missing something, that something special to make what you do and you say, unforgettable in the eyes of those who see and hear you.
If so, you may want to have more charisma, which means of communication have charm, personal magnetism, ability to drag the others, all qualities that are attributed to those who can generate enthusiasm in others, devotion, and consensus for this are called leaders.
Some say that charisma is an innate quality, a quality which belongs to a select few. Others say that is a quality that belongs to all people, but in life some people develop more and others much less or even forgotten.
So, following this second theory that I really like, charisma is a potential more or less asleep or hidden in all of us that with the right resources and appropriate information can go back to the surface.
In fact have you ever wondered why a child of four years he has charisma and a man of forty is boring? Because they grow become too serious, we take ourselves too seriously and to feel accepted by all hide our hearts.
Instead to be charismatic, we have to be spontaneous and less focused on results. Act for what we feel within ourselves, without fear of being criticized and the need to get approval at all costs. Just like a child would be four years.
To do this we listen to our heart and make him talk, but at the same time also be humble and understand what is expected of our party. If you want to create a positive contact with each other, is that you have to take the first step and not vice versa, but not trying to please him at all costs, but showing an interest and pleasure for him!
The interest, curiosity and empathy that you will be able to send, will make him feel at ease and unconsciously he will thank you for the importance that you have shown, making you realize that he likes you too! Want to be loved by others? He loves you first! Do you want to please others? Do not despise them, but do not demonstrate superiority discover what may like them!
The trick is to think that others are nice people and pleasant, even before trying it. And this, let me, it's also a great exercise of altruism and not just have charisma! If we move without showing acceptance for others, because we become easily receive the same attitude we have. If we show interest and pleasure for others, automatically become interesting and enjoyable for them.
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