We said that the charisma is not a characteristic feature of quality of all but a few, and unfortunately over time many of us hide or adjust for social convenience.
But the good news is that fortunately never dies and you can resurface it with drilling techniques.
Here is a summary of what needs to be able to have charisma.
· MUST HAVE BELIEFS charismatic. That is what we think and feel are worth for what we are really focusing our attention on our strengths and dropping instead what we like less. This means pleasure, without agreement and criticisms. It means being free of three great fears: failure, rejection, embarrassment. So, have charismatic beliefs means letting go with confidence to life in a mature and adult.
· MUST BE IN MEMBER charismatic. I mean being able to create on us powerful mental states of passion, interest and inspiration. In practice it means: Whatever you want others to prove to you, you must first hear and feel inside of you.
· MUST HAVE BEHAVIOR charismatic. That is to pay attention to posture, to walk, how to move, speak, look and listen. And then treat the image as a whole: physical appearance, hair, clothes, shoes etc.
· MUST BE ABLE TO USE SKILLS '. After working on our beliefs, on the states and behaviors can also learn to use skills: such as the ability to speak in public, a sense of humor, persuasion, story telling.
All this is possible but only if we work well on our self-esteem. Yes indeed, you will say.... But how do you like most and least critical? Learning to love and accept ourselves, improving our internal dialogue with phrases encouraging, empowering and the silencing that annoying little voice that is always ready to judge us.
Devoting time and also taking care of ourselves, using the care and attention that they usually reserve for those we love, to love others because we first love ourselves.
Did you know that to win the negativity is not strive to be positive? But trying to laugh, joke, and play down, yes. The true antidote to negativity is using humor!
A truly useful and effective method to overcome the problems is to exaggerate them so much that they become ridiculous. In this way you can not help but laugh, I assure you.
Try to apply this practice is for the negativity that part from you, for what you throw on the other. Exaggerating in your mind or aloud, the representation of a bad thing, you will notice that it will become so ridiculous it's ridiculous. This will remove power to the problem!
Another very important thing to work on is how to manage the fear of rejection and failure. We are afraid of rejection because we give more value to what others tell us, the value that we give to ourselves. It’s the meaning we attach to the refusal to make us suffer, so you have to do in order to decrease the mean giving less importance.
To combat these fears, we must try to feel better and always be in our state that physical and mental best. The states of mind are contagious, is spread from person to person, so if we want to look their best we need to feel better.
And then a nice sentence to be pronounced in mind is that things go well, that does not happen, or nothing serious and worrying that something will go wrong if you really: who cares!
This course, though only two days, give you more confidence and security in wanting to take over your life and in wanting to be leaders of your actions. Of course we can not think of ourselves and change some limiting beliefs that we carry with us for years in just two days, unfortunately.
But I can assure you that once triggered some mechanisms in our mind and felt the pleasure but still shy and uncertain to be close to what we have always wanted to be, you can not go back.
At least not completely, in the sense that some mistake or there may be fallout, but who cares! So you can not do anything but move forward and improve every day, more and more. I leave you some wonderful words with the hope that they might be inspired as they were for me.
"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, to frighten us. We ask ourselves: "And who am I to be brilliant, beautiful, talented, fantastic?”
On second thought, who are you to not be all that? You're a creature of God to keep a low profile your not serve the world. There's nothing enlightened about shrinking, people should feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We are all born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us.
There are only some of us, in all of us. Every time we make our inner light shine, we unconsciously everyone the chance to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others. "
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