Have you ever wondered what you do when you meet someone you like and decide you want to like it too?
Suddenly it's like in your brain turning on a red light that warns your whole body.
All of your muscles and your nerves are suddenly awakened to perform a very special mission: to become more attractive in seconds!
In this case make that kind of communication is commonly called a "nonverbal" and that is the way you move, the expression on your face, your look, tone and volume of your voice.
The function of this type of communication is to express emotions, feelings, moods easily and thus remains in the memory of people, even more than the meaning of words uttered during a dialogue.
In this sense, your clothes, your physical appearance and the way you present yourself fall into this sphere of communication.
But beyond wanting to please someone or not (it was an example to give a good idea of how and when the non-verbal communication is activated very well) take a casual non-verbal language, that feel safe and comfortable in the way speak with others, significantly increases your ability to pull in every field from the personal to the professional.
You will certainly have in fact, to meet people for nothing physically attractive and maybe even too well dressed but incredibly attractive, and with that I do not know that make you special to me want to know who they are and to know them.
Try to think why you attract and you like, what are their characteristics. ...Definitely know how to use their non-verbal language very well.
And now instead of trying to remember as you are when communicating with others as you move, how he gestures, how you speak, how you smile, as you move your eyes, how your breath ... if you're upset / anxious / relaxed.
It is clear that much depends on the situation where you are, but it is also true that in any case, if you really want to gain effective communication must aim to implement a communication "attractive" and then you improve your nonverbal communication. Begins:
· First you learn to observe deeply and accept. When you accept, you learn to like even more. To please you is the main source of attraction for others.
· Get possession of the space around you, in the sense that you should not stand in a corner, but to hear that you're there, obviously without being intrusive.
To use your body consciously, which is to indulge your thoughts with the right moves: you want to express safety and positive? Adopt an open posture with shoulders straight, stride and look proud!
· Exercised to control your breathing, the more you are relaxed and the more you are able to control your behavior
· Smile more, without wanting to please at all costs. What does this mean? It means that if all goes well and there are no problems, you can give some smiles to those in most close to you!
· Establish a connection with everything around you that seeks to understand the context in which you are to feel comfortable.
· When you talk about, think about transferring emotions and not just concepts: the active expression of your face, your eyes, and your smile.
· Learn to modulate the tone of voice, rhythm and the volume to annoy people in front of you.
· Occurs depending on the situation and degree confidence, the spatial proximity between you and the people you talk to or have to do: too close or too vigorous may be out of place, not understood or do not like.
· Enhance your appearance and taking care of your body by adopting a dress code that will improve .... To do this you can download my 5 free style classes that you find here next!
And you, at which point you in improving your nonverbal communication?
Already an experienced person? Send me your comments and tell me what are your strategiesfor becoming more attractive!
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